Ann patchett's option

Whenever you feel attacked by a group of people because of your ideals or your preferences, you have the right to defend yourself. Somehow, we tend to believe it is not ok to stand for our ideals or our rights, ignoring the fact we are no longer fighting for ourselves but for everyone who has the same problem. Sometimes, I can agree, it is better to ignore the situation, let it pass. It is totally fine if you do not want to get in troubles because of someone else's prejudices; our peace, our tranquility and, in some cases, our lives worth much more than a problem. In other cases, like Ann Patchett's, you just have the courage to not being hurt.

If I were Ann Patchett, I would not have done anything different. As a law student, my mindset is looking forward to solve controversies in the court. As a person who understands how hard is to change people's mentality, especially in topics such as sexual preferences and religion, I could not have done more than stand in front of those who do not agree with me and explain how important is to discuss as civilized people.

Even when she got insulted in every possible way, she acted with respect and tolerance. In my opinion, that's one of the best ways to defend your thoughts.

People who defend their points, who stand in front of their bullies, people who wants to stop the hurt and prejudice with courage are the ones that defends humanity from rotting itself.